Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Dead or Alive: Why the Contrast?

Last night I went to my first concert; I went to see Skillet and Disciple. It was a ton of fun but I was struck by a couple things there.

Kevin Young, the lead singer for Disciple said, "I could just pray all night! Does that not rock?"
After the screaming and clapping had died down a bit he said, "But you guys came for music. So I'll shut up and play you some more."
I know it shouldn't surprise me really, but the screaming/cheering and clapping were twice as loud as it was when he said he could pray all night.
I mean, talk about putting on a show. All I could think was, "Yeah, sure you could pray all night. I'd love to see you try." The fact that he had to ask, "Does that not rock" was a sure sign that he would NEVER actually pray all night. He'd only talk about doing it to put on a holy appearance. And it worked. The audience fell for it... well, most of it anyway.

Near the beginning of the concert the audience was asked, "Who here loves Jesus?" When the screaming wasn't quite 'satisfactory' the question was asked again in a "I want you to be louder" way. One the third asking the place was just crazy loud with all the shouting and screaming. Okay great, so everyone there at least claims to love Jesus. But what does that mean to them? During the entire concert, I couldn't help looking around at everything (being my first concert I was a little curious). I got a little irritated at some points when I looked around. Several of those same people that had yelled their lungs out saying they love Jesus at the beginning were now headbanging. I mean, my brain hurt just watching them. And maybe I'm a little extreme, but somehow I just don't see how that is a sing of loving Jesus. Everyone knows that headbanging is NOT good for your brain. It does serious damage if done long and hard enough. And as Christians, our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit. We are supposed to take care of our bodies, and that includes taking care of our brains.

Why can't Christians be different from non-Christians? It made me a tad uncomfortable. When everyone was told to get their cell phones out it was just plain... well, what on earth is the point? A guy a couple seats away got out his lighter and started waving it for a little while. And it was just weird.

WHY DO GUYS WHERE SKINNY JEANS?!?!?! They are so gross! I'm sorry, but there is only one way to describe how they look.... GAY! Sorry, but that is how they look. And if you claim to be a Christian, I don't see why you feel the need to dress like you're gay. I know, I know, don't judge a book by it's cover. But I just think God has called his Children to something more. Christian bands shouldn't need to dress like secular bands in order to be cool enough for Christians.

Okay, so my couple of things that struck me has turned into a few more than a couple. Sorry! I only have one more.

As I looked around at everyone at the concert I had a thought that just wouldn't go away. Everyone was way into the music. Jumping around, clapping, hands raised, some singing along, one word came to mind: Alive. Then suddenly the picture of a church service entered my mind; the pastor standing in the pulpit preaching. The 'alive' fans replaced by the bored church goers doing their utmost to not fall asleep. Some no longer fighting the drowsiness that overwhelms them, their eyelids slowly close and their heads slump back. A new word invaded my mind and erased everything else: Dead. What a contrast these to scenes are. In the church, there is a deadness, a disinterest. But enter a concert and you find yourself in the midst of electrified aliveness. Why such a contrast? Why do churches lack this enthusiasm?

The answer is very sad. And it can be summed up in two words: surface faith. Christianity is a surface thing. The majority of Christians wear their faith as a badge or a title. But they still cling to the things of the world. The things that capture their interest are worldly. Being Christian, they must uphold their title by doing Christian things such as listening to Christian music. But they really want secular music. It fascinates them and is like a magnet, for their week faith is not enough of a negative current to repel them. But they can't allow themselves to be drawn to secular things so what do they do? They must secularize Christian music. This satisfies their longing for the world but still allows them to wear the badge of Christianity.

But go to church? Church lacks the 'excitements' they hold dear. Their surface faith find no enjoyment in digging deep and discovering the wonders of God's Word. They are nothing more than babes, able to take nothing thicker than milk. They find this milk in the lyrics of christian music, but a church service (a good one anyway) fills their plate with meat that they are unable to digest. It is unable to keep their attention so they drift to sleep. They become 'dead', losing the 'aliveness' they have while at a rock concert.

Now I realize this all probably sounds a little ridiculous. You're probably thinking, "You don't know how to enjoy yourself properly at a concert if this kind of thinking is the result." or, "You just need to go to more concerts. You're still new at it and you need to get used to them." or more likely, "You're insane! How can you judge people so strongly? You need to loosen up and not be so legalistic."

So I just want to clarify. I DO enjoy listening to Christian music. The same music I just called spiritual milk. I am not saying it's a bad thing. Most of it is great and has some really good profound lyrics. What I am saying is that I feel that Christians need to rethink where they spend their energies. A church service should be filled with people just as alive as a concert. Not jumping around screaming. But alive. If we give so much attention to singers and their music, why can't we give at least that much attention and more to the preaching of God's word?

6 comments:

Unknown said...

Hey Mellerina! =)
Wait... now how did I *know* the second I saw the title it had something to do with the concert? =P
Anyway, I couldn't agree with you more. I mean... bands like that just gross me out. =/ They call themselves Christians... but nonetheless, look at their *fruit*. Is it good, or bad, or have they produced anything at all?
Anyway... *cough* I have to agree on the gay part... I see that all the time. =/ It is so gross.
Anyway, good post! =)

~Madison

Anonymous said...

Man, I could write for a while on this subject since I'm heavily involved in music. I'll only give a few points.

First things first, I'm with you regarding the whole skin-tight jeans. It's a scene thing that appeals to people who are predisposed to following trends. But I have seen much worse. At a metal concert, I saw a man wearing a pair of tennis shoes, a pair of boxers, and nothing else. In the crowd, the nearest person to him was probably three feet away.

I'm not entirely sure how head banging could cause brain damage. Concussive brain damage is usually only caused by excessively long periods of repeated blunt force trauma, i.e. repeated blows to the head over a fifteen minute time frame. Boxers are the most apt example of this. But even getting knocked out will not cause any serious harm. This means that the brain can withstand an nine-hundred-pound per square inch blow to the skull without any lasting damage.

I love going to see Skillet. Last summer I saw them at Bushnell, IL's Cornerstone festival. I was very disappointing that I didn't get to mosh, but they did play a few worship songs halfway through, which impressed me. Years before that, I saw them at some conference. They came onstage during the morning session, and everyone went absolutely nuts and rushed the stage. Their vocalist quickly rebuked them saying something to the effect of, "There's a stipulation with a band that is known as a performance band, but we just want to worship right now." Being a Christian musician involves being able to tell the difference between acts of worship, acts of self-worship, and performance. For as long as I've listened to them, Skillet has had that ability.

I listen mostly to metal now-a-days, and I was pleasantly surprised that many Christian metal bands' lyrics include heavy spiritual meaning based deeply in Christian ideals, theology, and scholarship. Examples include the metalcore band Demon Hunter, the progressive death metal band Becoming the Archetype, and the grind/deathcore band Impending Doom. Impending Doom will actually speak openly about the Christian ideal each song is based in before performing. There newest single, The Serpent's Servant, is a description of the uselessness in trying to attain salvation by works. Becoming the Archetype's new album Dichotomy is modeled after C.S. Lewis's "That Hideous Strength" Trilogy. I'm particularly fond of Becoming the Archetype because they have constructed a prayer group/newsletter to give their fans the means to pray for one another's lives. They've even written a metal rendition of How Great Thou Art.

I've never listened to Disciple, but their vocalist sounds like a douche bag. In any case, many "Christian" bands I have come into contact with are sellouts. Some will include religiously oriented lyrics, but will not openly attest to their faith. All That Remains is an example. "We're Christians who are in a band," is a common catchphrase. I have also heard of one of my favorite bands, As I Lay Dying, saying in an interview that they don't like to bring their faith on-stage. This is a shame since most of their lyrics carry heavy theological undertones. For example, in Within Destruction, the band speaks of the total depravity of man:

"If music is a mirror reflecting the depths of my heart
Then I will write the darkest song
For without forgiveness
My soul is lost

All that is hope
Within destruction
Comes from you

For I have fallen
And there is nothing good
Within me yet I've
Been given life
I will never deserve
For without forgiveness
My soul is lost"

I have actually discovered, after I acquired a taste for heavy music, that metal defies most of the stereotypes people place on it. Much of it is very technical, and the lyrics are often times shockingly insightful.

Melody said...

Your comment made me rethink what I'd posted and I was wrong about some stuff. In my frustration with seeing the contrast between the excitement in the concert and that of church I made it sound like I think all music is fluff. I definitely don't think that. I love music because of how the lyrics sometimes do such a great job of conveying biblical truths. I guess I just feel like, we can't rely solely on music to get our theology, even if the theology of the lyrics is right on. So maybe my frustration was pointed in the wrong direction. The music is great, I just wish people would pay as much attention to the bible. People memorize songs all the time, why not scripture?
There just needs to be a balance.

Anonymous said...

Much of the music is fluff, don't get me wrong. The current trend in metalcore is to attract as many fans as possible, but once they have this fan base, the band doesn't really know what to do with it if they want to do anything at all. This is also the direction the church has started to go in bringing in new members. But metalcore was originally supposed to be a genre of music that was dedicated to subject matter in a radically uncompromising way. The opposite has become true for this genre of music with only a few exceptions. Again, it is largely the same with the Church.

Anyway, I'll stop chewing a whole in your ear. I always recommend good Christian metal to anyone who is willing to try something new, and I want to encourage you to give it a try as well.

Lucinda said...

Hey everyone,
I understand your point Mel, and yours as well, Kerry. I think if we look at this realistically, we're probably all close to the "same page".

I have to agree with Mel on the style of music though. I tend to listen to softer and what is, to me (not speaking for anyone else), more worshipful. Our church services should have the same passion for the Lord as our concerts. If we are willing to raise our hands during a concert, but not at our home church, how much of "worshipping" is actually show? I'm not saying it is necessarily..(I have been to concerts...raised my hands..worshipped, and I didn't see it as a show.)

The whole clothes issue, tight jeans...etc. My opinion is that people have to be careful with appearances. I personally prefer tigher shirts, but will not wear them around people because it could cause a guy/man to stumble. I'm not sure if this makes any sense. I guess my point is just that..it is not wrong UNTIL it is done and causes another to stumble. When Mel was at the concert, she found it to be a distraction. If it was a distraction then it took away from honoring God, despite the lyrics/style of the music.

I hope anyone who reads this realizes, I have no problem with Skillet or Disciple. I am not trying to say anything bad about them. They probably stand 100% behind their music/lyrics. I can not say because I do not know them personally.

Please don't be afraid to disagree with me or ask questions on my thoughts.

~Cinda

Unknown said...

So, I sorta spoke with ya 'bout this on IM a wee bit... But as an [awesome] concert my sisters and I are going to approaches, I have been thinking.

I listen to primarily country music. I am not debating the style or the lyrical content. I know that some is good and some is bad. As with any music. It was only recently that I even decided I liked anything other than country. =P

I surely see your point Mel, as well as Kerry's and Lucinda's.

First thing I'll comment on is dress. Skinny jeans (especially on guys) is bad, but I've seen a lot worse. Drunk rednecks and their girl friends do not tend to be... modest. Haha. =P I do not like the look on either gender, but do not tend to think of it as bad. I'm sorry it was distracting to you, I think that of all things... Well I'm sorta desensitized to that one.

You were talking about head banging and a concussion or something? O.o Don't see that one, hon. I'm also a little... Confused. How some things are considered/deemed a "sign of loving Jesus" yet others are not. I have a feeling that some of the things I do, when I am full of joy for the Lord are not particularly normal "signs of loving Jesus", but I know they are. God does too. I'm not saying that all who were headbanging were doing so because they were suddenly consumed with an intense joy for the King, but... You never know.

What you said about the Young of Disciple is not much of a shock to me, really. It is how people are--Just because they're a popular band doesn't mean they're not normal people. That mess up. And get lost in a holy image rather than actually behaving in such a way. =/

Now... All that stuff about worship... Heh. At my church... Nothing about the music is of the variety that's got me all hands in the air worshiping. Just. Not. I get that way when I go on a walk, look around me and realize how blessed I am... Stuff like that. Even different (less lame =P) music can, well yeah. I know what you're saying about people being so into the music, yet seeming dead in church. It is something I've kinda been like, o.O on. So... I dunno. I'm still... thinking.

You mentioned something about songs being memorized yet not Scripture... That's me. 100% I know the words to thousands of songs. I hear one 3 times, I know most the words. =P I listen to music constantly as well, so that's got a good bit to do with it too. Scripture? Yeah. Not so memorized there. I do not hear it everyday in some nice catchy song. I'm not even reading it everyday, but that's a whole other story. =P I think that it's def a problem, yet a hard one to fix. At least for me. =/

So. I am going to shut up now. I need to go anyways. Haha. =P Sorry it took me so long to finally comment.